Look,
I know that you are not stupid. And I know that you are probably
wandering through life, in many ways, just like I am. You know
something's not quite right. You know the world isn't the way it's
supposed to be. There's too much pain; too much suffering, and not
enough love, not by a longshot.
You've been to church. You've
met so-called Christians. You WISH there had been more to it, but were
left feeling empty. So now, you disappear into the routines of every
day. Step 1 thru Step 9, and then you go to sleep and start it all over
again. You wish there was something more, but science has proven there
isn't. So you just go on, doing the best you can. And as Henry David
Thoreau put it, you "live a life of quiet desperation."
There's a
part of you, bruised and battered because every time it speaks up, you
hit is with your fists until your knuckles are raw and bleeding. But
this part will not be silent, not completely. It whispers to you: "There
is more." It makes your skin crawl with the idea that this life is not
all there is. And somehow, some way, you know you were meant to travel
on, to be transcendent. That the grave will not consume you whole, but
will let some inner part of you go.
I wish I could reach out to
each one of you and somehow change your heart. But all I can do is tell
you what I've seen and what I know. As the apostles said, "Gold and
silver, I do not have but what I do have I give you. In the name of
Jesus Christ of Nazareth, walk."
That's right. Walk. You think
all this life has been is walking. No. This life is a long distance
crawl, and worse, it's like Atlas pushing that stupid stone world up the
hill, only for it to come rolling back down around us or over us.
You're so right. This world SUCKS. This world is NOT what it should have
been. And this world is NOT all there is.
Jesus came and picked
me out of a strawberry field. That's my story. I was working at one of
those pick-your-own strawberry patches, and it was my senior year at
UMCP. An old old friend came out that late afternoon to pick
strawberries. He ended up picking me. He simply asked "How are you
doing?" And somehow, against my better judgment, I did not respond with
the usual, "Fine, how are you." Instead, I said, "I'm actually awful."
And that was such a strange thing for me to say. I had just graduated
near the top of my class. I had letters of recommendation that made me
blush because of the high praise. I was quite certain of a teaching
position and quite certain I would become the next Stephen King. But God
revealed to me that I was broken. I left a relationship with a very
sweet young lady, in the worst possible way. And the future, to me,
looked more of a burden than anything else.
I had this pressure
on my chest. I can't explain it. But it was like God pointed His finger
directly into my pectoral muscle. All day long, I felt it. And I cried
out to everyone I trusted, trying desperately to explain what I was
experiencing. But the only person who had a clue about what I felt was
the old friend who came out to the strawberry field.
He said,
"Wayne, could it be that God is trying to get your attention?" He went
on to babble a TON about Jesus and being born again and all that. And I
nodded a lot. But, honestly, I didn't really care "what" he was saying.
But I was absolutely captivated by the peace that he wore like a glow in
the dark suit. He had, I knew, something I had never ever had. There
was peace and security and well, a sense of love and belonging that I'd
never thought possible.
So we agreed to meet together to read
through the bible's book of Romans together, and I read Romans 7 and it
hit me over the head like a sledgehammer. It was a full color portrait
of me, but written 2000+ years before my birth. I was stunned. And I
prayed that Jesus would forgive my sins (many, many, many sins). And I
believed in Jesus for eternal life.
My life didn't instantly
become a JOYFUL merry go round. It has been a struggle. I have doubted
more than God deserves, and I have struggled and fought, and came
kicking and screaming back to the realization that God. IS. REAL. That,
JESUS, IS. REAL. And that He is both GOOD and LOVING, and calling out to
all of us. The transcendence I feel in my deepest heart, I now realize
is eternity calling. An eternity with Jesus in a world that knows no
pain, no tears, no sickness, and no death.
When my father died
last October (2015), the bottom dropped out from under my feet.
Suddenly, death was something real and for those left behind, crushingly
permanent. Look, you can deny it all you want, but you are going to
die. You may be hitting the gym and eating kale all the time, but still,
the death ratio is 100 to 0. No matter how much fun you can fill your
life with, it's going to end. And likely, people you love will be taken
before you, and you will feel the aching emptiness of that loss. This is
no joke. This isn't funny. No movie, no book, no alcohol or drug can
take away this truth: you will die. And though you invest in stocks and
bonds, though you have the greatest life insurance known to man, though
you have given careful thought to the legacy you will leave behind...you
are still leaving.
There's a place in you, battered like your
bloody knuckles, a place that is weeping quietly that everything you've
done in this world, every single act, every memory, and every
experience, will melt away when you die. There's a divine melancholy
that hits you at the end of every birthday, every Christmas, every
Vacation. A very real sense that what should be....didn't last as long
as it should have. And, if you're honest, you'll see that this feeling
is real.
All I'm saying is this: I'm 48, the wrong side of
forty. You might be fifteen, thirty, twenty-four, or sixty. It doesn't
matter. Time will kill you. And after? There will be eternal life. One
way or the other. You will not disintegrate and be no more. You will
live on. I beg of you, look for Jesus. Read the book of John or read
Romans and see. Taste God and see that He is good. He's not closed
minded and intolerant as the modern press would preach. Instead, He
offers eternity to EVERYONE who would believe in Jesus and what He did
on the cross, saving us from our sins.
I hope I've got a lot of
time left. I want to see my kids graduate high school and college. I
want to see them get married and make a dent for good in this world. I
want to write a gazillion more books. But more than anything else, I
want to see people believe in Jesus and be forgiven. I want to see you
all in the GREATEST PARTY IN THE HISTORY OF THE UNIVERSE. In heaven.
That's our real home. As much as this world doesn't feel quite right,
Heaven with Jesus will feel like the far off country we've always felt
rumor of. And it will be ours to share with the Lord forever.
If
you've read this and believed in Jesus, please message me. If you have
questions, doubts, flaming rebuttals, etc, message me.